My friend recently met someone on a dating website and is very happy with the relationship, but when she introduced us I found out it’s my ex husband. We have been divorced for a few years after being together for nearly 16 years. We even have two kids together. Before I found out my friend was dating my ex, I told her how horrible he was. Now I feel completely awkward and do not know what to do!
Well, after you put in a call to the Springer show, I suggest preparing for a change in dynamics of your friendship. While she is seeing him, it will not be the same. Unfortunately, for the time being, you have to put on a fake smile and wish her and your ex the very best. Tell her that you had an awful experience, but people are capable of change. I suggest you try to upkeep a friendly relationship with her for two reasons: 1) If things don’t work out with the two of them you get your friendship back to normal. 2) If things do work out with them, she’ll be involved in your kid’s lives and you would want the best for them. Also, look within yourself to see if you are really okay with this. If you feel betrayed by your friend, you have to distance yourself a little before you get hurt again.
Elina Khusid
Insight Relationship Expert
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